LOYALTY is always a choice

 
Loyalty, this is not just a word instead it is a responsibility, but the sad part is most of us take it for granted. Followed by the more sad part, nobody feels guilty of it. Every time you breaks someone's trust, you loose loyalty. There is no other way to proof loyalty once its lost.
I strongly believe one must have some principles of life. But just give a look to those who don not have one. they are like a flying kite in the sky with no string attached to it. A string is always needed by a kite to guide it about directions, similarly every one need some principles that guide them about the directions of life. Now the question comes that where these strings are found, don't worry just look to your parents and their lessons that they taught you from the very beginning, I must be sure that those lessons meant nothing for you at that time but I can bet as long as you grow and face this world those lessons will become a source of courage and idol for you.
Now a days, in this era of social media most people have lack or dignity and self respect, this may be reason that loyalty has become rare in most of us. I want to share a story with you all, one of my friend was in relationship with one of childhood friend, all the things were good between them and they were close to get married in one year.  With the grace of god they tied the knot of wedding in temple and started a happy married life. After a while there comes a harsh time when they have to move to two different cities for their work, after 3 or 4 months one of them met a friend in office where they were working, slowly and gradually that friendship got deep and they started to go on dinner and lunch on every other day and by some how this created a bond of love between them, despite of being married this all happened without letting the second partner know of all this stuff. This all went like this for more than 2 years as the working period was of two years in that office according to the company policy. After 2 years when both the married person went back to their home city and started to live together again, things started to get messy, as the first partner was always on the phone chatting and talking to his/her love that was only for 2 year tenure during work and the second one always wandered about the problem due to which all these things are happening. This went for around 4 to 5 months, and the reason was in the front of everyone when a phone rang and was picked up by the second partner. Now as they started talking about the issue, all the pages starting turning one by one. At the end this relationship went so toxic that they end up with ending their marriage. Some of the points given by the first person for defending was loneliness, lack of support, and also the main point was that he/she was independent and can do what so ever he/she wants.